Just so we are clear- visiting your grandmother in the state you were born is elitist.

Meeting the millionaire heiress daughter who you will son begin an affair with and divorce your first wife- not elitist.

Cindy Hensley met John McCain more than 20 years earlier at a party in Hawaii. He was a 43-year-old naval officer, married at the time. She was 25. They married a year later — in 1980 — and they signed a prenuptial agreement, which was fairly rare at the time.